I don’t know that medication will really “treat” those characteristics, @Sporty. You would probably have more success with therapy and working on self-regulating emotions. My son worked on this with an occupational therapist (OT) with the Zones of Regulation program. It was very helpful.
Some parents say Intuniv or Kapvay help with impulsivity, but I don’t think any medication does fully. My son takes Concerta and he’s still wildly impulsive (and hates it – he’s 14).
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