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Miss.Entropy
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I’m by no means an expert but that doesn’t sound like ADHD. Sounds more like bipolar. I also had a boyfriend who was a lot like that. Their manic episodes seem really random and sometimes like ADHD but switching to lows really fast, yelling, etc seems a little odd. You can’t force him to get help. He has to decide and unfortunately with mental illness, their brain – aka the decision maker- is what is sick. Best to leave until he helps himself. Otherwise you are looking at a long life of verbal/ emotional abuse and tying to help someone who doesn’t want to be helped.

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