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kiraste
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Vineetmodi – I find your comments here both disrespectful, and gravely irresponsible.

You said:

1) GET OVER YOUR FEARS.
If it were that easy, wouldn’t he, and a million others do just that.. “get over their fears”???

2) STOP BLAMING OTHERS FOR YOUR FAILURES.
Who is he blaming for his failures? This is not in any way an appropriate response.

3) BE A MAN.
Ah yes, the ultimate asshole answer. Do tell, what does it mean to “Be a man”?

4) START A BUSINESS OF YOUR OWN.
Oh, ok.. Maybe he never thought of that? I bet he does it asap, now that you suggested it.

5) DETACH YOURSELF FROM MONEY, AND PURSUE YOUR HIGHER OBJECTIVE IN LIFE.
Ha ha ha!! This one is my favorite.. As a married man with a child, what were you thinking attaching yourself to something as stupid as money to begin with??? I know the next time I find myself in financial distress that is affecting the well being of my family, I am going to first, “Be a man”, and second, “Detach myself from money and pursue those higher objectives” you suggested. Awesome.

What a joke.