I’m so sorry. We also had a rough birthday party this year. To participant Ullig- I also live in Dallas, TX and I have been looking for a group to join. My son is also 9 and has ADHD, and it would be great to have someone to talk to who understands what we are going through. I’m not sure how we can contact each other through this site, but if you end up replying I’m sure we can figure out a way.