I have the same issue. When it got to be over 40 hours a week, I confronted him and said this is not ok. Now he conceals it. I still have a hard time believing that living in a fantasy world is ok, but after reading the psychologist’s post, I can understand my guy’s need for gaming–although I still don’t like it. I think there are are better ways to handle ADD. He and I need to sit down and have a conversation about limits. He’s been gaming for over 20 years, so I can’t see it changing. But I can hope. This is the single most upsetting issue for me. I can deal with all the other ADD stuff.