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Brynn
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I have ADD and I am married. Romantically, I am the one lacking! I forget things way to often. This forces my husband too be in charge of everything. He is amazing! He double checks before we go out the door or if I was supposed to make a call. He does all the bills, reminds me of things every day.
I am not very romantic. I’m not that good at gifting, especially on a set date. That is more spontaneous.
I make up for it. I am passionate and imaginative. I love life and it shows. I have big dreams. When i am happy, it’s very contagious. I am super supportive. I’m great at taking care of him when sick or sad. I cook and bake like a pro for that foodie.
So my point is that if you can get past the tardiness, forgetfulness and powerful fights. There is so much to love.