Good to have you here @Kelsead!
You might find these articles on when mom also has ADHD very helpful:
I recommend the book “The Queen of Distraction” by Terry Matlen, too. It’s packed full of tips and tricks for moms with ADHD.
ADDitude Community Moderator, Author & Mentor on Parenting ADHD, Mom to teen w/ ADHD, LDs, and autism