I would love to hear how your situation is now. I could cry listening to your story because it helped me realize my son is not the only one in the world thats like this. My son was diagnosed by a neuropsyc wwith GAC and ODD. She suggested counseling, getting my cchild out of the school district he’s in, no meds. He started his IEP in December. Late January/early Feb i suprised spent a day with him in school. Not good.Behaviors at home with sister/grandma have improved greatly, school behaviors have escalated. I have applied to a different school district, and we went to Dr to see about possible medicatons. He suggested Ablify at 1-2 milligram, but Im having a hard time wrapping putting my soon to be 8 year old on these drugs.