Everything you described couldn’t be part of ADHD (here’s a self-test that give you further validation:
Of course, the only way to know for sure is to get a formal evaluation:
https://www.additudemag.com/category/understand-conditions/adhd-in-adults/diagnosis-add/
Penny
ADDitude Community Moderator, Author & Mentor on Parenting ADHD, Mom to teen w/ ADHD, LDs, and autism