Having to deal with your ADD husband is hard enough I know, but to add children ontop of it must be very very difficult. I know the anger and frustration you have. I can’t tell you what to do as I don’t even have a grip on my marriage and this disorder.
I am here for you if you need to vent. It is really comforting to know that i may have no friends to talk to, but I can come to this forum and write my frustrations out to some people who do get it.