It’s called Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria, and it’s very real for a lot of individuals with ADHD:
It encompasses rejection and criticism.
Dr. Dodson says therapy really doesn’t help RSD, but he does recommend two particular medication options that help in the first article I linked above. Finding out about RSD explained SO MUCH about my husband, and my son.
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