This reply was originally posted by user adhdmomma in ADDitude’s now-retired community.
You need to be very clear that you do not agree with her IEP ending and you do not accept it.
This is mentioned in more detail in these articles:
Don’t back down. You are a legally-mandated part of the team.
ADDconnect Moderator, Author & Mentor on Parenting ADHD, Mom to teen w/ ADHD, LDs, and autism