I have been with mine for 17 years. It became unbearable about 6yrs ago and started to truly show in our relationship 10 yrs ago. Finally in April after the worst hell imaginable he started to accept reality. I would be more than willing to share what steps I have taken to finally get him to hold my hand aand walk side by side with me again with you. Email firstname.lastname@example.org and I will give info to contact me. You are far from alone! This seems to be an epidemic these days. Our saving grace was this website! Looking forward to sharing tactics and ways to reunite with your husband. Please trust I would never guide anyone in a negative manner nor towards anything but a positive outcome to save your relationship. Will gladly share then enormous list of resources I have gathered.
You got this!