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rosebud83
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Listen, I’ve been with my husband for 19 years. We found about his ADD after we got married. He is an amazing man. But those little fights, they haven’t stopped for us. I don’t believe it gets better 100%. The disorder has shown itself differently throughout our marriage. You can learn coping methods, tools etc..but be will never be who you want him to be or think he should be. You need to ask yourself if you want to have that in your life, in your marriage. The divorce rates for people in our situation is bleak.
Truth bombs, negativity… This is just my opinion and how its like on this side of it all.