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leftie22
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Don’t marry someone you don’t trust. You don’t need a lifetime of checking up on him or wondering if/when he’s going to leave again. Life is hard, people age, responsibilities keep coming, and you need a partner who you know will be with you through all of that. This isn’t the guy. Having a relationship with someone with ADHD has enough challenges, without adding cheating.

I agree with the previous poster, he’ll hyper focus on you if you try to leave, but as soon as you give him another chance, he’ll be back to chasing excitement.