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Yes he does have medication that he takes. Sometimes I can tell when he is off them or when he has not renewed them in time. However, I do notice during those times he is supplementing with marijuana because I can smell it on him. I wish I could get closer to him so I can let him know how special he is and how I appreciate him (without acting like his mother). And Yes, he does see a therapist and has been for years.
Thank you for the advice.. I will look up the Melissa Orlove book. I am saddened at this time because two days ago he said he couldn’t meet me because he was having a drink with a girl he is dating, which came out of no where since literally the week before he said he isn’t dating. My friend thinks he got scared and just said that – not sure what’s going on, but I am his friend and that doesn’t stop me from loving him.