Sounds to me like she absolutely qualifies for at least a 504 Plan, but maybe an IEP. Your daughter clearly needs assistance. Schools often deny assistance and hope parents will drop it. 🙁
If you have access to an educational advocate, I highly recommend hiring them to help you push the school to get what your daughter needs and deserves.
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