Thanks Adele – really appreciate your support. This is tough. All really really tough. Thanks for the reminder that this can be what happens – I’ve read it many many times though when you’re in the thick of it in real life with the other person, to see and feel it play out I find it so mind bending. I literally feel conned and like I’ve wasted all this time with this fraudster. I guess I have to remember that he’s probably not done it on purpose right? I don’t have to be in this anymore though. I’ve asked him to leave and hope he goes without any fuss.