Hope 🙂 Flip flopping sucks! It’s exhausting. You might not need to break up however you do need to step into taking complete responsibility of this situation- meaning if he isn’t going to, you must – meaning if he won’t do something about it, you must. (Look into The Work by Byron Katie). For your own mental health be committed to this changing. A sorry is a little bit encouraging however actions are the actual only meaningful thing. I would insist on an urgent appointment with a physchogist for you both under the guise of marriage counseling however find a senior one who has extensive knowledge of ADHD xx