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RT it’s so kind of you to take the time to give such a generous heartfelt reply. Thanks so much for the offer to help though I don’t think it would work for an external person to talk to him at this stage as he is very defensive about things. If there ever comes a window I will let let you know!
My husband will say things like ‘that’s how I am if you don’t like it then leave’ and has recently started with ‘maybe sometimes things just don’t work out in relationships’ it’s like part of him would rather break up than deal with it. He’s committed to going to see the psychologist another two times next month however I feel like there is no insight at all and It’s like he’s going through the motions. Can I ask what made you actually ‘get it’? What was the moment that you were like ‘this is it I must get help for myself’? Thanks