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Oh yes so similar! I think weed helps to some extent however as a ‘med’ for ADHD it’s ineffective and can actually make ADHD worse (as well as cause new problems in mood and behaviour). My husband sounds so similar to yours – yes he is kind and well intentioned and all of those things – however the build up in tension, irritability, OCD tendencies and then rage explosions with little accountability afterwards I’m just not prepared to tolerate in someone that’s done nothing to fix it.

I tried to talk to him again last night (after not discussing it much for a couple of weeks) I get “work on your own problems, stop being bored, if you don’t like me don’t be with me.”