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Thank you x yes I’m constantly setting boundaries it’s getting pretty wearing. I keep getting told I’m controlling or boring or suddenly apparently we’re into different things or I’m not meeting his needs enough (if I say no to the driving, or helping him with his work, or not getting high him or taking care of his kids when he needs). It’s suddenly made me think that maybe I’ve been in a kind of fake relationship where it’s actually very one sided. It’s so confusing! This guy is actually quite smart and seems quite street smart — I wonder if he has ever actually loved me really. All a bit heartbreaking.