Totally. Im very much into personal development etc and guess I find it so hard to understand why someone would bury their head that much in the sand. It seems pretty common – do you know why? Is it because people with untreated ADHD genuinely can’t see how their behaviour affects others? Or is it a lack of empathy? Or do you think sometimes people have to hit rock bottom before they can feel it? Or being scared of change? I think I’m personalising it and making it because ‘he doesn’t love me enough’ or appreciate our relationship at all.