Thanks for replying RT
I will definately try to get him looking at this website. Ive got him to agree ADHD may be possible. Baby steps forward!
Wow well done for making the move to get help. Im sure your wife will really appreciate it and I hope things improve for you
Its actually a comfort to know others have had similar experiences. I havent talked to anyone really about this, kind of has been our family secret. Crazy I know but although I am tortured by this I do not want to betray my husband as he is essentially a good man. It feels good to share it. Im private and I do not want judgement from friends and family who will likely support me and the feel hostile to my husband for his poor treatment of us.
Best of luck! I will be interested to hear how you get on