Reply To: Feeling like a failure and a hot mess… Home › Welcome to the ADDitude Forums › For Adults › Feeling like a failure and a hot mess… › Reply To: Feeling like a failure and a hot mess… February 4, 2020 at 9:37 am #140946 AlbertParticipant “Why don’t you simply use behavioral therapy instead of medication ” I’m not an expert but it really helped me. This reply was modified 1 year ago by Albert.