Unfortunately, I am not sure meds will help in this case. For me, medication just barely makes it so that I can work and listen to half of someone’s conversation (versus the 10% that I used to be able to listen to). I thought medication would fix a lot more, but therapy helps the most.
Good luck to you. Someone else may have more tips or advice. Please be safe. I empathize with the abuse you are suffering from, and I don’t think anyone should have to tolerate that.