Take it from someone who divorced an angry and abusive man after 17 years of marriage.
Angry, rageful outbursts, and controlling behavior don’t get better, it only gets worse.
Also, it is no example to set for your children if you have them. Ultimately, that is what got me to leave him after 10 years of abuse. I didn’t want our son thinking it was OK to treat women like shit, and I didn’t want my daughter to think that all men were like him, and that she should settle for what she can get.
My ex husband raved that a divorce would “F**k Up” the children, because all children with divorced parents are…
I’d had enough. I sank into an abyss of depression because of the abuse.