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AdeleS546
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It will take time for your wife to see that you have changed. It takes a long time for change to happen whether you have ADHD or or not.
If you have been married awhile, Maybe the reason why she is saying you are just excusing your behavior is because she is frustrated with the way things have been. Another thing is she will actually have to see change to believe it. Actions not words. Have you seen a cognitive-behavioral therapist?