The reply by “Deep” should, in my opinion, by deleted because of its hateful, spiteful tone, and generalizations about people with ADHD; and especially mothers with ADHD. Many of us had and are fantastic mothers with ADHD. Spontaneity, empathy, and an ability to “roll with the punches” are incredible assets to parenting, and are traits that many ADHDers share. But ADHD is extremely variable, and is layered upon an individual person. The disgust that drips from your post suggests you would be better off contributing to a forum not focused on ADHD.