Thanks for taking your time to answer me 😊
It is a lot and very complicated. He does clearly need an ADHD professional, but I’m not shore I’m able to find him one.
Regarding couple therapy – I’ve begged him to go with me, but he will not go because “I’m the one asking and everything we do is on my terms”, and because “I need to apologies for my behavior and all the pain I’ve put him through, before he will go.”
Me time is also needed, but so far I feel like I’m living as a single mom, and can’t see were to find the time and possibility.