Reply To: I’m about to leave. Home › Welcome to the ADDitude Forums › For Adults › Relationships › I’m about to leave. › Reply To: I’m about to leave. December 20, 2019 at 5:28 pm #137034 AdeleS546Participant H22K22: Don’t blame yourself for what is happening with him. What you are going through is beyond difficult, but you need to think of your child’s future as well as your own.