1. Your feelings are very valid.
2. He’s a narcassists through and through.Thats what they do. Place blame and make you feel as if you don’t perceive things correctly. I know I’ve lived it.
I’m also an empath so i understand on that aspect too. I’m honestly not sure what would help. Most narcassists will never see or admit their problem. Just know that you’re not always wrong. You’re not overreacting. And your feelings are valid and you are a strong empath woman badass!!