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hopelessme
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Yes, meds have to be adjusted/changed. But they won’t. Because he does not believe me when I point out the side effects. Basically, he does not believe me at all when I say anything about him unless it’s a clear compliment. He said I’m having “ perception issues” , “ don’t see things clearly “ etc. He claims I’m crazy in other words and therefore my words are not to be trusted. So, any issue I want to discuss with him is not valid and “ only exists in my head”:(
Adhd gaslighting it is as I recently found out.
He also said he won’t read about his condition and how it affects marriage/ family at my request.
So, no way to get though to him. He’s in dead set denial.