Thanks. Yes, dh and I have had these situations before.
This fall we started a plan to have “low drama” social outings. Just to give us a break, have some fun, and check in with the “real world.”
Honestly, when the comment came – we were relaxing and talking about “The Masked Singer”. Dh and I really were feeling pleased with ourselves. (Look at us socialize without a scene! Look at us have a conversation!)
I might have just seemed flustered but I was frustrated and hurt.
Today, rather than regret.. that person has been texting me with more and more justifications for their comments. I see the texts, but am making a point of not clicking on them.. I did go into her profile and put her on mute.
Hope it is going better for the rest of the crew.