Thank guys, I’ve just tried again to talk to him calmly.
He just stares past me and zones out.
I say, -please talk to me. Tell me what will make you happy.
He just stares. Then the tiniest distant noise will make him flinch and snap out of it and he will walk off without even noticing me.
I don’t think he hears my voice, he’s mastered blocking me out.
His mess in the house, the garden and the van is enough without the rest of this.
I think I’m going to have an affair.
See if the grass is greener.