Reply To: Spouse with ADHD became generally negative

[Penny Williams]

It requires a shift in expectations of what a relationship looks like first and foremost. There are some solid strategies in these articles:

Married with ADHD: How Real Couples Make It Work

When Your Husband’s ADHD Makes Him Act More Like Your Child

How Learning to Listen Might Save Your Marriage

Penny
ADDitude Community Moderator, Parenting ADHD Trainer & Author, Mom to teen w/ ADHD, LDs, and autism