It does sound like a challenging relationship, Amy.
If ya think about it, one of the main reasons people date is so
that they can see how compatible they are with one another. I’m
a big believer that longer relationships before marriage can save
people an awful lot of money on divorce attorney’s.
Considering his unwillingness to see a counselor/specialist, were I
in your shoes, I would honestly have to consider whether I wished to
continue the relationship.
As an individual, you have every right to live your life as you choose,
and to find love, comfort and happiness in a relationship.
Just my $.02 ..