Probabley parent on here is going to want to say: Come sit by me.
This group is s terrific location for coming alongside other parents as we tease apart parenting our kiddos.
There is a lot to say, but I second the recommendation of checking out Dr. Ross Greene’s work.
https://www.livesinthebalance.org/
I read his book the Explosive Child, but I got the most benefit from listening to “Lost in School” as an audio book. It gave me the chance to listen through the example scripts as I was driving between errands. At the end I was more skillful at using Greene’s CPS Model.