Maybe assess your priorities with your wife and see if your current lifestyle matches your priorities or if it needs some tweaking.
My husband and I recently did this and I ended up quitting my job that I enjoyed because I felt I wasn’t getting enough time with my quickly growing kiddos and the house and peace in our home was greatly suffering. It was scary but we are very happy. Of course I am not suggesting you take such drastic measures, just saying it is nice to check-in and make sure you are both doing exactly what you want to do with your lives. Best of luck to you!