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I do this a lot! I write little novels to my friends in text messages, every time I open my mouth it’s like I’m doing a long lecture 🙁 If something interests me I never seem to be able to summarize my thoughts and only tell what’s important. Some people even tell me they can’t handle how much I talk, so I only have a few close friends who learned to appreciate what I say and sort out the important parts in my messages or what I say themselves. At university we always had to write long essays so I could handle that. Anyway.. In live in a small nordic country and people are more quiet here than Americans (I lived there too.) i don’t fit the social standard here of being mostly quiet and only say what is most important.. its a life long struggle I think, I will always be the ”chatterbox” as my teachers in elementary school called me 🙁