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mortpm1
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Bill, my personal experience is that my ADHD partner SAYS he want reminders, but then becomes upset when 1 reminer turns into 2 a few days later, then 2 turns into 3 a week later, then he has the audacity to become upset when I give up and do it myself (if he happens to witness it, otherwise he would not notice, lol).

When do reminders turn into nagging? We can all agree that nagging is not nice, but who gets to define this?