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Dizzy
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UPDATE: The meeting went really well!! She does not in fact hate me (f#* rejection sensitive dysphoria, am i right?!) and thinks that I am doing a great job in the role for the most part. We just need to work on coming up with a better system for communication, and we’re both confident in our ability to do that. Thank you SO MUCH for your support; you all helped me go into the meeting with a plan, and it worked!

Sweet!

Don’t know if it’s an ADHD thing, but it seems we often get an idea in our
head (like our boss hates us) and it turns out to be completely incorrect
once the truth of the matter is revealed.

Presumption, based on facts not in evidence, has sadly been the basis
for many wars, ruined marriages, etc.