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I agree with Keri C – my husband isn’t a bad person, but our relationship is bad. I’m very happy I have my kids, but if I could magically still have them, but with someone who is supportive and pulls their weight in house stuff, work, parenting and our relationship, I would go for that in a heartbeat. I wanted to have that with my husband, but he seems incapable. I’m trying to keep things together for the kids, but starting to question that strategy more and more, since we’re hardly a good example of a healthy relationship for our kids. I feel very stuck, because it feels like my options are to tolerate an increasingly intolerable relationship, or get a divorce and not see my kids every day.