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tlharriss
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Sounds like you may be better off without this stress in your life. It’s so hurtful to be in love with someone who takes advantage of you and is only concerned about their own needs and wants. I think it seems to be a common thread with adults with ADHD. My husband isn’t a drinker or drug-taker, but he still has that tendency towards selfishness. I stay with him because he balances that out with being very loving and loyal to me and he has a big heart. If your boyfriend isn’t giving you something worth hanging onto him for then I’d say its better that he’s out of your life. It’s hard to move on and get over a broken relationship but you will most likely look back on this relationship and be glad it’s over