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jodisong
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Thanks for the topic and discussion. My husband has run everything into the ground from his inaction. The lawn might get mowed once a month, but he gets mad at me if I do it, repair/maintenance needs that have been waiting for years, etc. If I don’t take care of it, it doesn’t get done. I myself am ADHD, but I disciplined myself along time ago to manage my time/money/life because no one was going to do it for me. I’m glad to know I’m not alone.

Jodi