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sophie369
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Also he lies, always has since I met him and at the beginning it didn’t seem a big deal and I made excuses. Now I feel I don’t deserve to be lied to, honestly and integrity are 2 of my core values but we’re not aligned at all with that. If I confront him he’ll play it down as being little lies, and make out it’s weird that I let it get to me. I’ve tried to explaining that to me they’re big lies and they hurt me.