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Phillipa60
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As I just posted over on another thread, the calmer times came to a very abrupt ending last night when H had a massive anger outburst towards our grandchild #2 (age 7). Now my daughter doesn’t want the kids to sleep over at our place, I understand her although it’s a massive loss for me.
H really needs serious treatment – he is such a bad place.
I opened up to both our adult kids about it, told them everything (they witnessed the scene last night) and it feels a bit better to have unburdened myself, although I feel bad for discussing H with them.
Holding all of this secret from families and friends is so hard and makes me feel incredibly lonely.
This site is great – thank you for reading
P