How would like to envision this situation working out?
I love that question. That is such an important step to figuring out how to get to the root of what’s really bothering you. It reminded me a little of the acronym THINK – before you speak think about :
T -is it truthful
H- is it helpful
I- is it inspiring
N-is it necessary
K-is it kind
I use this with my kids a lot .