I feel like we are kindred spirits. I don’t have good answers yet, but it helps to know we are not alone in this. I’ve signed up for the Gina Pera blog last night. She wrote a book called “Is it You, or Me, or Adult ADHD?” I’ve ordered a used copy to read. Hoping this gives me some additional tools to use to keep my sanity and to help my husband. I guess all I can offer right now is, keep the faith.