I work as a customer service rep and one of my trigger phrases is “You people”. The other thing that can be a trigger is when I’m talking to someone and they constantly repeat themselves over and over again, like I didn’t hear them the first time or when someone asks “are u listening to me” just because I dont look at u doesn’t mean I’m not listening to you. The other thing that bothers me is when my boyfriend gets mad when I dont come outside and just sit with him, he doesn’t understand that I have a hard time just sitting that I have to be doing something else with my hands.